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Just finished reading this......................way too weird!!!


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That's it right there.. "Possible charges" No not "possible", there should be charges!!! If he were to beat anyone other than his wife like that, he'd have several charges, and probably with jail time. If he's already on probation he should serve the rest of that time!! That's Milwaukee, wonderful bunch we have here!!!
It's just sad!!

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Exactly Bean, if they don't do something with this guy soon the next time they find her she probably won't be so lucky.

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should be put in the general population of a prison and then inform the inmates he is a child molester. I personally don't have any use for those of my gender that do that to women.

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BTDT!! Not as bad as that, but am very happy to be out of it!! Takes a very strong woman and alot of freightening chances to leave a man like that!! The best thing for that woman would be for him to be locked up so she can get on with her life!!

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I personally have no use for a 'man' who beats or abuses his wife.
That being said,
I personally have no use for a woman who keeps going back to be abused.


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I may be reading to much into this article but if the woman who has been beaten and hospitalized by that dipsh!t; keeps going back to that dipsh!t, then she sure seems to be asking to be beaten again and again until death overtakes her.
There are to many advocates out there that help with abuse victims that she can't find one to help her get away, if she wanted to.

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It's good when they do that. It gives them the chance to find the toughest charges that will stand up in court under scrutiny. I doubt he'll get off very easy. Atleast I would hope not.
I understand the control men and women can have over their spouses. It would seem she needs some mandatory therapy to break loose from it. Otherwise she might go back and the next time it might be worse.

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Wombat.. I used to say the same thing myself about women in that situation, until I was in it myself.. Thank god it was not as severe as this woman, but it was enough.
The minds of these men are wicked and evil. It is not easy to leave, mainly because of fear and because the women are brainwashed into thinking it is them, they are the problem and they deserve this treatment and that is the best that they can do. The woman is worthless and deserves no better than what she is getting.. If the woman was strong enough emotional, she would not be in a sitatuation such as this, which even makes it harder to get out. It's not just a physical issue, it is also emotional abuse. Emotional abuse leaves more scars than physical abuse.
I had gone through 4 1/2 years of counsoling before I had the courage to leave and take my chances of what he may do to me if I did! I'm not afraid to talk about it now, I am a much better person and now know it was wrong and will not repeat the same mistake It takes alot of work for a woman in that situation to realize she is worth something, something more than the treatment she is getting.
I feel sorry for the ones that cannot get the help they need and deserve..

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Wombat I agree. I have seen many times when the abuse starts and friends and family step in and intervene only to see them run back when the abuser calls and apologizes. These punks cry and say how they will never do it again and these weaklings buy it.
Now when they finally do leave after being tired of being beat to a pulp they get all righteous and say how the girl is the victim. She is but she is a willing victim.
How many times did someone come to someones aid only to see them run back saying, "he said he was sorry and wouldn't ever do it again." or the classic, "But I love him".
The funny thing is this lady had a chance to "escape" many times yet it was when someone called and turned him in that she is getting help. I bet that the only reason she is not running back to him now is because she is under lock and key. Thank god for that anyway.

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It's not just women Lucky, I have seen men in the same situation being beatin by their wife or G/F and keep going back... Why? Because they are so emotionally unfit, they think it is the best they can do.. It is not just women who are weaklings to this sort of abuse!!

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Hey Bean
here we go again. People that have never been in that situation tell those that have been how it is.
You are right in every thing you posted.
I am proud that you had the strength to get out and the fortitude to do it. This I know was not easy and you said that what you went through was not as hard as some might have it..
FEAR is one strong motivater.
It requires an inner strength and a GOAL to be able to get onesself out. Seldom does it ever happen with out help from someone on the outside.

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----Until you have lived this type of life you have no idea just how terrible it is. Bean is oh so correct.
I consider myself a very strong woman. But at one time I was just as weak as this one. It was a form of mind control he employed and don't tell me I could have walked out anytime. I tried for 7 years to leave and it wasn't until he went to work offshore and was away from home for 3 months that I finally woke up. It took a dear friend to finally make me see that it was NOT my fault and gave me the strenght to walk away.
Self-esteem? Not an ounce. But I regained it after I left. And I have never regretted leaving.
Please don't condemn these women for they have no control over anything in their lives. You cannot even imagine.

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Thank you very much NiteStar and I am proud of myself also!! I have worked very hard to get to where I am today!!
FoxFire - way to go girl and all so true!!

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So sorry.

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I dont think any man or woman in those circumstances are weak. You do not have to be a weak individual to be caught up in it. There is a lot of manipulation and mind control involved. Alot of it sneaks up on the person being controlled. It's not as hard as some might think because usually the one being controlled starts off in love with the person. It's fairly easy to manipulate some one who loves you unconditionally. Even more so when you sneak up on them and blind side them with control.
I wouldn't think any of the women in this thread started out as weaklings. Some manipulative liar caused it to happen.